One Kick Per Season (One Minute Memoir)


A Memoir of Happiness, Chaos, and Barely Playing the Game

Setting: June 2025, Rochester, evening at the park


Holden “plays” soccer — but he doesn’t really play soccer. He flails. He runs in circles. He laughs like the whole thing is a joke only he understands.


When he was younger, most of the kids were just like him. Little whirlwinds with shin guards. But now he’s moved up to the next age group — and suddenly, some of the kids know what they’re doing. He still doesn’t. His foot almost never touches the ball. Whole games go by without a single kick — and he doesn’t seem to mind.


He used to fake fall on the field, just for fun. He’s outgrown that, I think. But last week, in the middle of the game, he wandered into the goal and wrapped himself up in the net like a burrito. Just stood there, smiling, tangled and content.


And honestly? It was perfect. Because the thing about Holden is — he’s always been all in… just not always in the same direction as everyone else.


Sometimes I wonder if the other parents are watching too — if they notice how offbeat he is. Sometimes I wish I could explain him. Other times, I think: maybe I don’t need to.


Maybe it’s enough that he’s happy. That he’s trying. That he shows up exactly as he is, every single time.


This post is part of my One-Minute Memoir series — short reflections on small moments that still manage to say something big.

Welcome (Back) to Stories by Stephanie


Welcome (back) to my little corner of the internet! Whether you’ve been reading me for years or you’ve just stumbled in, I’m so glad you’re here. This space has always been where I share my stories, my books, and the messy, meaningful pieces of everyday life — and I’m excited to start fresh with you.

A New Name for a New Chapter

For over a decade, I blogged as Steph the Bookworm. But just like life changes, so did this blog. When everything fell apart, I knew I needed to rebuild — not only the site itself but also the identity behind it. That’s why I’m here now as Stories by Stephanie.


The name feels truer to who I am today. Books are still a huge part of me, but I’m no longer only a “book blogger.” I’m a storyteller. And this space needed to evolve with me.

Still Under Construction

If you’ve poked around already, you might notice things look a little bare. That’s because I’m still in the middle of recovering and transferring old content from my archives.


I’ve spent months and countless late nights burning the midnight oil — transferring hundreds of posts, with hundreds still to go. Most have been rewritten, revised, and retitled. I’ve dug through old photo sites to recover images, deciding along the way which pieces of the past to leave behind and which to carry forward because they’re still part of my story.


It’s slow, detailed work, but it matters. This space has always been where I process, share, and connect — and I want the foundation to be strong, even if rebuilding takes time.

What’s Ahead

While I keep restoring the old, I’ll also be creating new. My focus going forward is simple: telling stories.


Two of the biggest features here will be my series:

  • New Chapters reflections on life after divorce, starting over, and building something new from the pieces left behind.
  • One Minute Memoirs short snapshots of everyday life. Writing them reminds me that even though life looks different now, there is still magic in the mundane.

You’ll also still find:

  • Books → reviews, recent reads, and reflections on my lifelong love of reading
  • Life + Essays → personal stories, memoir-style posts, and reflections on motherhood, mental health, and growth
  • Goals + Everyday Life → monthly goals, updates, and the smaller snapshots that make up a life

Motherhood Now

When I first started blogging, I wasn't yet a mother. Over time though, I began to write my way through pregnancies, newborn nights, and baby milestones. Now, my boys are ten and almost seven (yeah, I can't believe it either). I’ll still be talking a lot about motherhood and our life together, but it will look a little different. There will be fewer detailed updates and fewer photos of them — because they’re no longer babies. They’re their own little people now, with their own stories to tell.

Thank You

If you’re a longtime reader, thank you for sticking with me through this transition. If you’re new, I’m so glad you’re here. This space is still a work in progress, but it’s also a work of heart — and I can’t wait to share both the old stories and the new ones with you.

From the Ground Up: Rebuilding My Blog and My Life


When Everything Changed

Sometimes you don’t choose to start over — it’s chosen for you.


After blogging faithfully as Steph the Bookworm from 2009 to 2023, I stepped away for a much-needed break when my entire life irrevocably shifted. In the midst of that upheaval, my domain name was sold out from under me — with no way to get it, or my content, back. Years of writing, memories, and connection… gone in a click. For a while, I thought that was the end of my blogging story.


Starting Again

But loss has a way of forcing your hand. In mid-2025, I decided to rebuild from the ground up — with a new name, Stories by Stephanie, and a brand-new domain to match. A chance to reclaim what was mine while also creating something new, something that could only exist because of where I’ve been.


So here I am, piecing it back together one post, one page at a time. I’ve been slowly salvaging what I can from the Internet Archive’s Wayback Machine and old feed readers, pulling my words back into the light. It’s slow, sometimes tedious work, but it matters. This has always been the place where I process, share, and connect — and I’ve missed it more than I ever thought I would. I didn’t realize how much of myself was in those words until they were gone.


Life Under Construction

The truth is… I’m rebuilding more than just a website. My life has been through its own kind of demolition: divorce, a new job, selling the house I thought I’d grow old in. Letting go of the familiar. Stepping into the unknown. Starting over in ways I never imagined — messy, painful, necessary.


A New Foundation

I’m finding my footing as I go — grieving what was, learning to live with what is, and making space for what might come next. Not every story ends neatly. Some shift quietly into the next chapter before you’re ready, and you learn to carry forward what matters most.


That’s what I’m doing here — with my words, my work, my life. Building something that feels like home again, one small piece at a time.

Recent Reads: July 2025

I didn't get through many books in July. My time and energy was consumed by re-building the blog. Hoping to pick the pace back up in August! Here's what I read.

📊 Reading Stats

Books Read: 3

Genres: 

    Fiction: Literary (1) ◦ Thriller (2)
    Nonfiction: (0)

Formats: Paperback (1) ◦ eBook (1)

Sources: Library (2) ◦ Owned (1)

Average Rating: 3 stars

Yearly Reading Goal Progress: 39 / 100 books (39%)

39%

📖 Book Reviews

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📘 The Arrangement

Author: Kiersten Modglin

Genre: Fiction ◦ Thriller

Publication

Format & Source: eBook ◦ Kindle Unlimited

Dates Read: June 27  July 1, 2025

Rating: ★★★★☆

Ainsley wants to fix her marriage, so she proposes an arrangement: she and her husband Peter can each date other people once a week. They’ll use fake names and identities—and they won’t talk about it. At first, it seems to be working… until one mistake leads to dangerous consequences and a tangled web of secrets.

This book was short but gave me absolute whiplash! It was crazy, ridiculous, and ridiculously entertaining. The twists were wild and completely unexpected—I was genuinely shocked multiple times. The dual narration worked well, and I found myself excited to pick this one up whenever I had a chance. I immediately jumped into the sequel and was thrilled to see it was a series. An absolute blast to read and total brain candy.

Quick TakeFast-paced, wildly twisty, and totally addictive. The definition of popcorn reading.

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📘 Wild Dark Shore

Author: Charlotte McConaghy

Genre: Fiction ◦ Literary

Publication

Format & Source: Print ◦ Library

Dates Read: July 4  July 10, 2025

Rating: ★★☆☆

On a remote island called Shearwater, Dominic Salt and his children are the last remaining caretakers after rising sea levels drove everyone else away. When a mysterious woman named Rowan washes ashore during a violent storm, her arrival sparks new hope — but also new secrets. As tensions rise and danger builds, everyone must decide who they can trust and what they’re willing to sacrifice to protect each other — and the future.

This book had major hype, and I was excited to get my hands on it. But about a third of the way in, I was already googling: Does Wild Dark Shore pick up pace? I held out hope and kept reading… but it never did.

The writing was incredibly unique—sometimes even beautiful—with lines that stood out and a setting that felt eerie and otherworldly. But the stilted, simplistic style took some getting used to, and the pacing dragged throughout. Worst of all, the romance felt completely forced. There was zero chemistry, and the relationship just didn’t feel believable.

Overall, this was a disappointing read with a few redeeming qualities.


Quick TakeUnique writing and atmosphere, but painfully slow pacing and a romance that never rang true.
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📘 The Amendment

Author: Kiersten Modglin

Genre: Fiction ◦ Thriller

Publication

Format & Source: eBook ◦ Kindle Unlimited

Dates Read: July 1  July 30, 2025

Rating: ★★★☆☆

After the explosive fallout from The Arrangement, Peter and Ainsley are left picking up the pieces of their shattered marriage — and dealing with the secrets that came to light. But just when they think the worst is behind them, a new threat from the past resurfaces, putting everything — and everyone — at risk. This time, trusting each other might be the only way to survive… but it could also be the most dangerous thing they do.

I really enjoyed the first book in this series, The Arrangement, and was excited to dive into its sequel. The Amendment was completely twisted and took off in directions I didn’t see coming. Overall, I liked it — but not quite as much as the first. It got a little too far-fetched at times and didn’t feel quite as thrilling. Still, it was a good, fun addition to the series, and I jumped straight into the third and final book as soon as I finished.

Quick TakeTwisty and entertaining, though a bit more over-the-top than the first — still a solid sequel that kept me turning pages.

🎖️ Favorite Book of the Month

The Arrangement by Kiersten Modglin

That’s a wrap on this month’s reads — here’s to another great chapter! 📚

Month in Review: July 2025


🗓️ July 2025 in Review

July brought high highs and a few frustrating lows — a long-awaited writing breakthrough, endless blog tinkering, a handful of migraines, and more Diet Cokes than I care to count. The boys delivered their usual one-liners, the blog saw progress (and chaos), and there were crookies... so many crookies.

📚 Books I Read

My reading took a bit of a nosedive this month, as most of my time, attention, and focus went to rebuilding the blog. In all, I finished up three books.

  • The Arrangement by Kiersten Modglin
  • Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy
  • The Amendment by Kiersten Modglin
🏅 Favorite Book of the Month:
The Arrangement by Kiersten Modglin
📚 Books Read: 3
📈 Yearly Progress: 39/100

🎬 What I Watched

🎥 Movie:

  • I Know What You Did Last Summer: Katie, Taylor, and I went and saw this reboot at the theater. It was pretty ridiculous and the plot had a lot of holes, but all in all, it was entertaining and fun.

📺 TV:

  • Amy Bradley is Missing (Netflix documentary series): I've been fascinated by the disappearance of Amy Bradley ever since it was featured years ago on Disappeared, one of my favorite shows. So when Netflix announced a documentary series, I had the date marked on my calendar. I wasn't disappointed -- and I'm glad the case is finally getting more attention. (Yes, I joined the Facebook groups.)
  • A Deadly American Marriage (Netflix documentary): This true crime documenatry covers the case of a woman and her father who murdered her husband -- claiming it was self-defense. I hadn't heard of the case before, but it pulled me in right away. There are so many twists, and the deeper you get, the more questions it raises. Even by the end, you're still not totally sure what to believe.

📌 Happenings & Tidbits

  • A long Fourth of July holiday weekend and a lowkey celebration at home. The kids set off little fireworks in the yard with Papa!
  • A long-awaited doctor's appointment for Holden, and a huge improvement with a small medical issue since then.
  • The boys and I went to a birthday party for my son's best friend. It rained, but they had a blast playing in the yard.
  • I went to the movies with my besties. 
  • I decided to re-launch my blog and spent the bulk of the month working on that! I bought a new domain, changed my name, and transferred hundreds of posts over from the good ol' Internet Archives.

💖 What I Loved

  • Had some major writing breakthroughs once I started working on the blog again. First time in years!
  • Free Kindle Unlimited trial.
  • Grabbed four free books in the break room at work. Score!
  • 🎶"Weren't For the Wind" by Ella Langley and "House Again" by Hudson Westbrook

🙃 What I Hated (a.k.a. Things That Sucked)

  • Too many small migraines.

👦 Boy Mom Moments

  • Holden wrapped up his summer season of soccer. Several games and practices were canceled due to extreme heat, but all in all, he enjoyed this season.
  • The boys went to the cottage overnight a couple of times with Mimi and Papa and really enjoyed it. They swam in the lake.

🍔 What I Ate (Besides My Feelings)

  • Holden and I made crookies on several occasions. They are DANGEROUS!
  • Some coworkers and I went to a new-to-me Indian buffet for lunch one day. It was really good.
  • I got my favorite meal (carbonara romana) from my favorite restaurant (Papa Joe's) for takeout when the kids went out to the cottage for the night.
  • The McDonald's snack wrap returned, so I had to get one. Disappointing! They're not what they used to be.

🔄 This Month in Loops & Spirals

  • Spiraled over blog formatting dozens of times.

📝 This Month on the Blog

⏭️ Coming Up in August

  • Launching the blog!
  • Hopefully a couple of farm visits to prepare for fall (we already had one last weekend)!
  • Another movie date to see Freakier Friday with friends.

💡 What I Learned

Sometimes the biggest progress comes on a quiet weekday night, with a laptop, a Diet Coke, and no one home but you.

So that’s it for me! See you next month!

Get Sh*t Done: August 2025 Goals


My first official month back to goal setting! I'm a little rusty, but let’s go… one messy step at a time. 🧹

August 2025 Goals

Reading & writing

  • Read eight books
  • Officially re-launch and announce the new blog
  • Post eight new blog posts

Personal

  • Take Holden to dinner at BJ's: we went here a few weeks back for the first time to try the pizookies and we both really liked it. I have a coupon that expires this month, so it's time to go back!
  • Get rid of ten pieces of clothing
  • Order birth certificates for the boys
  • Apply for my passport
  • Sign Holden up for Fall soccer
  • Reduce debt by $800
  • Watch ten episodes of TV
  • Create a fall bucket list
  • Deal with school change issues 
  • Go for eight walks 
⭐ Priority Goal: Officially relaunching and announcing the new blog!

One messy step at a time still moves you forward.